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authortoluakindoli
Nov 8, 20250 min read


Crabs in a barrel? Could be your habits...
You know, one climbs, others tug it back. We often use this when talking about other people. I was just thinking, this is not just about people but also about habits. The invisible crabs, little setups that make slipping back easy. The 'just-in-case' ice cream, the saved chat, the 'only this once'. There’s that line in Proverbs 6:10-12, 'A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest, and poverty will come on you like a thief...' I hear it as tiny rep
authortoluakindoli
Oct 18, 20251 min read


Most will mark; few will paint.
Let me share something I saw recently... An artist left his painting in the town square with a note, “If you spot a mistake, leave a...
authortoluakindoli
Oct 3, 20251 min read


Breaking Free
I didn’t realise I was stagnating. My spirit was quietly shrinking, the essence of who I was dissolving bit by bit. I called it maturity....
authortoluakindoli
Sep 27, 20251 min read


The Pub of Broken Dreams
“What a lovely day it is,” remarked Brain . It truly was a bright, clear afternoon with soft, bulbous clouds drifting across an...
authortoluakindoli
Sep 13, 20253 min read


How to Let Go When You're Still Holding On
Why Letting Go Feels Impossible Letting go is one of the hardest things we do. We want change but cling to what feels safe. I was...
authortoluakindoli
Aug 27, 20252 min read


The Important Things in Life
A beautifully crafted Japanese vase adorned with intricate gold and black designs, elegantly displayed on a modern glass table in a...
authortoluakindoli
Aug 22, 20251 min read


One of Those Days
The light that darkness cannot dim It’s been one of those days. The kind where you find yourself asking if this, all of this , is really...
authortoluakindoli
Aug 7, 20251 min read


When Creativity Goes AWOL
Creative Burnout is Real. Here’s What I Did About It. The ghost that haunts every creative person; the blank-page-phantom. Now, before...
authortoluakindoli
Aug 2, 20252 min read


Finding Love in Modern Times: My Comical Attempts to Catch the Eye of Mr. Cute Library Guy
A Meeting at the Library Love in the modern era is a curious thing. With dating apps, social media, and a world that's always online, the...
authortoluakindoli
Jun 26, 20254 min read


🧠💖 When Heart Runs the Show
Another crazy and jumbled idea but it totally works! Let's journey together... So Brain and Mind have decided to take a walk, leaving...
authortoluakindoli
Jun 23, 20254 min read


There are other fruits!
There's more than one fruit. Reflections 003 When life throws you lemons,...
authortoluakindoli
May 25, 20252 min read


Tarry...but not too long.
Let’s Talk About Letting Go (Or Trying To) I watched P.S. I Love You the other night, you know, the one where her husband dies but...
authortoluakindoli
May 25, 20252 min read


Writing Reflections
Author Tolu-Reflections 001 Why I Write Stories That Stay With You I’ve always been drawn to the quiet stories, the kind that don’t...
authortoluakindoli
May 25, 20251 min read


What If Nemo Was Never Missing?
*Originally written in 2016 during a late-night brain spiral 'Hypnagogia' is the experience of the transitional state from wakefulness to...
authortoluakindoli
May 25, 20252 min read
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